I'm Going To Tell You.... Since Your Mother Didn't
I have to say I am not your normal woman. I was raised by real women who told me the hard, uncut truth about life. Some people can't say the same. So I will take the pleasure in telling you what you need to know ....just in case your mother didn't.
Sunday, August 10, 2014
They a "THOT" but you an "AIN'T GOT"
They are opportunists. An opportunist is a person who exploits circumstances to gain immediate advantages rather than being guided by consistent principles or plans. So you see, an opportunist is looking for immediate gratification. The right now. She is not trying to build a relation because she ain't got time for that. She has not interest in trying to learn a more effective way on capturing the heart of a man. So she uses her pussy instead. Her pussy is the most valuable thing in her possession because she knows how bad most men want it. I said most, not all. I don't like using the word THOT, I like calling them what they are which is a HOE. It just sounds better to me.
Now on to the next. What baffles me is the current condition of the men who are labeling these women as a THOT. First of all let's identify what you are before you start calling people out of their names sir. They a THOT but you an AIN'T GOT. Ain't got a job. Ain't a car. Ain't got a house. Ain't paying child support for none of your children. Ain't got health insurance. Ain't got car insurance but has the nerve to put rims on a car you can't afford. Ain't got a pot to piss in nor the window to throw out off. But you have the unmitigated gall to call someone a THOT.
First of all, try to get out of your mommas house first and focus on yourself. Take care of your own business before thinking you have the sense of entitlement to look down on someone else. I know that there is a clear but unspoken double standard between men and women. But some of you men need to stop lying to yourselves and overlooking the fact that you ain't shit yourself. Fortunately, a woman can marry more money in 5 minutes than she can make in a lifetime so please worry about yourself. I am not a THOT nor a HOE, I am just a happily married woman who has noticed how most of these sorry ass men have been throwing this word around but AIN'T GOT shit themselves. They a THOT but you sir are an AIN'T GOT. I'm out.
Before you get defensive, trying to call me out my name please let me inform you upfront that I don't give even an itty bitty piece of a fuck. I can say what I want to say because this is my shit. This is my blog. This is the place where I can come and say how I feel without having to be considerate of others feelings. You chose to come here. You clicked on the link. Not my fault. So whether you are a THOT or an AIN'T GOT just take this as constructive criticism and keep it moving. No matter who doesn't like it, I'm going to tell you since your mother didn't
Saturday, May 10, 2014
Motherless Child
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
Being Employed With A Facebook Account
Sunday, February 2, 2014
The Audacity Of Old People
Sunday, January 26, 2014
Paying A Toll When It Wasn't Even You Driving....
Saturday, January 25, 2014
Submission Doesn't Mean Slave
All I remember when I was young is my grandmother making my grandfather's plate and bringing it to him every night at dinner. My Auntie Jean does the same thing for my Uncle Marty. I used to always wonder as a kid why a man didn't make his own plate at dinner. Then, I begin going over my friends house and their mom didn't bring their dad his plate at dinner. I asked my friend's mother why didn't she bring him his plate she looked at me and laughed. Of course she could not believe a small kid was asking her such a mature question and she simply said, "Baby he doesn't deserve a plate made for him or brought to him". I know now and understand as a woman why she said what she did. First, before I get into this please keep in mind these are my opinions so please if you always up in your feelings after reading this, calm down. I believe women should be submissive to their husbands only when deserved. Lots of women for one, are married to men they probably should have only had sex with. All men are not husband material. There are prerequisites that I think should be met before they can agree to be anyone's husband. Now if you with a sorry man that doesn't innately have an "I need to make a future for my family by working hard" type attitude then you have a huge problem. If you are the bread winner and he is unappreciative and not willing to help the family financially, again you have a huge problem. A man should be a protector. A man should be a provider. A man should make deposits. A man should make you feel like you have his full support... his love... holding each other hand in hand forever through any struggles or obstacles. That man... THAT man should have NO problem getting a submissive wife in a marriage. Submission should only be given to a man with a MISSION for your family's life and with a clear vision for the success he wants his family to have. Submission doesn't mean slave. A man should respect you and treat you with love even in a disagreement. If my husband has my back and puts my feelings and considerations above his, you damned right I will submit to the man God has placed in my life. You don't agree. GO ahead. Do what works for you and I will continue doing what works for me and my husband. I have been married for almost 12 years, I am 32 and I got married when I was 20 years old. My husband reciprocates all the love and energy that I give him. He runs my bath water when he notices I am tired. He gets me just because gifts to actively show me he cares and loves me. He tells me he loves me everyday. There is not a day that goes past that he doesn't tell me how much he appreciates the things I do for him. He is my soft spot. He is one of the reasons why I smile. Being with him has made me a better woman. That is why I trust him for making decisions for our family. I know he got me... even with my eyes closed I trust him to catch me if I happen to fall. Like I said, submission doesn't mean slave. So as always I'm going to tell you, just in case your mother didn't. Respect, Love and Protect your husband. Keyword: husband. Boyfriends don't get husband benefits and priveleges. Point blank and the period. Know THAT.